Quotes of The Day - On Self-discipline
Aesop Fables is a book of timeless collection of wisdom,  It includes a good story on how to constrain our own ego and have the self-discipline against flattering and temptations.
The Fox and the Crow
Aesop
A coal-black crow once stole a piece of meat. She flew to a tree and held the meat in her beak.
A fox, who saw her, wanted the meat for himself, so he looked up into the tree and said, “How beautiful you are, my friend! Your feathers are fairer than the dove’s.
“Is your voice as sweet as your form is beautiful? If so, you must be the queen of birds.”
The crow was so happy in his praise that she opened her mouth to show how she could sing. Down fell the piece of meat.
The fox seized upon it and ran away.Â
In his book “How To Become CEO“,
Jeffrey J. Fox advocates a list of “rules” for people to follow to rise to the top of their organizations. There are a few of them regarding self-discipline that are particularly meaningful for entreprenuers:
Keep Physcially Fit. The better your physcial condition, the greater your capacity for productive, unrelenting work. In a typical established company, 90% of all people climbing the corporate ladder are out of shape. Being physically fit gives you the entreprenuer the edge to be able to start earlier, pause less often, work more effciently and end your day with a wind spirit. You will be energetic and tire rerely. Your spirits will be up, and you will not get depressed when facing challenging situations.
Do Something Hard and Lonely. Self-elitism is what drives so many entreprenuers to start their own business so they can control their own destiny and free from management and mediocrity.  Do something you know very few other people are willing to do, this will give you a feeling of toughness, a certain self-elitism. It prepares you to be able to focus on the battle of business mentally. For example, running long, slow distances early in the morning (vs. jogging at lunchtime with a mob). All great and successful athletes remember the endless hours of seemingly unrewarded toil. So do the successful leaders in many organizations.Â
Think for one hour every day. Spend one hard hour every day planning, dreaming, scheming, thinking, calculating. Review your goals. Consider options. Ponder problems. Write down ideas. Mentally practice your sales call or big presentations. Figure out how to get things done with less and quicker. Take mental stock. Do this every day, preferrably at a scheduled time.
Add one big new thing to your life every year. To be a great leader of an enterprise, you must be broad-gauged, widely read, and have many diverse interests. You need to see solutions to your problems in the ways of other cultures, nature, music, how beavers build dams, anything. Accomplish this by restless learning. Never feel too old to learn as it implies you don’t have the capacity to grow, expand, or run an enterprise. If you don’t have the time, how will you ever get the time to handle a bigger job with twice the reponsibility.
Always Take Vacations. This sounds hard for entreprenuers. However, I have found that some of my best innovations and strategic changes came immediate after my vacations. Vacation is an occasion to observe other ways of life, new fashings and trends, different ways business is done, and literally to broaden your horizons.  It gives you a chance to step out of the box and the daily routine and look at your venture with a fresh eye that it deserves. Do so judiciously and always plan your vacation far in advance. A planned vacation forces you to work incredibly hard before you leave and finish lots of work. As an entreprenuer, you must be able to establish your organization so it can function smoothly without you.
Practice “WACADAD”. Dont’ talk about how good your are in the past. Prove with action, over and over.  Put the energy in creating new things and planting for the next innovation that will help you leapfrog your competitions. That is the main reason why you start your ownbusiness.  Remember “Words Are Cheap And Deeds Are Dear.”Â
Treat your family as your number one client. Startup demands a big part of your dialy waking hours. You need the support of your family.  You need an enthusiastic spouse who understnds that some sacrifice is necessary. Your family must be an ally in your business plan. Put your family on your calendar. Give them high priority. Respond to your family as you do to your job, or to that big, important client. Quality time with your family will reward you a thousandfold.
We can also borrow some anicent wisdom from Chinese philosopher Confucious regarding the self-disciplines. Confucious’ teaching in this subject can be summarized as the Three Temptations and the Nine Considerations:
The Three Temptations
There are three things a gentleman must abstain from;
- In youth, when the vital fluids have yet to stabilize, the abstention is lust;
- In middle age, when the vital fluids are fully potent, the abstention is contentiousness;
- In old age, when the vital fluids have subsided, the abstention is acquisitiveness.
The Nine Considerations
There are 9 considerations a gentleman must keep in mind:
- When looking, be mindful of clairty;
- When listning, be mindfl of acuity;
- For facial expressions, be mindful of geniality;
- For demeanor, be mindful of deference;
- When speaking, be mindful of sincerity;
- When taking action, be mindful of reverence;
- When confused, be mindful of inquiring;
- When angry, be mindful of the consequences;
- When seeing the change for gain, be mindful of what is right.Â
Everyone knows Rome wasn’t built in one day.  Pope John Pual II told us, “The future starts today, not tomorrow.“ It is important to know that self-discipline is about developing habits one day at a time that eventually helps making great long-term achievements possible. Some of the disciplines may require fundamental changes of how you think and approach things. These changes are possible, but difficult and they will not be finished today, but it can start today! Â
“If you can win complete mastery over self, you will easily master all else. To triumph over self is the perfect victory.” - thomas Kempis
